I am grateful today I celebrate my 58th birthday.
I have been blessed with a good job for the past 34 years (started January 27, 1987) and never been laid off even when work was slow I was able to work in another department.
I have lived to see all of my children get grown. Nashonda Lavette Dancy (Sherrod) Shonda was born April 1, 1987, India Matita Dancy was born February 20, 1991 and baby boy Curmilus Dancy III (CJ) was born August 24, 1998.
My wife has not worked since we been married and we have maintained to basic necessities. All of the children have been to college and my girls have more than one degree and baby boy only need a couple of hours and he will be able to obtain a 2nd degree.
My dad is 86 years old and will be 87 on February 13, 2020. He is doing great driving and doing whatever he wants do and most recently have been picking up pecans.
Some folk are worried about they can’t spend time with their family well I am good. My wife and baby boy is here at the house. My dad is at his house, Shonda lives in Maryland and India lives in Durham. To be able to pick up the phone and talk to my dad daily is enough for me however I go to his house almost several days a week to drop of some food or supplies. I go in and take whatever I am dropping off and head right back out the door and we talk on the porch.
Last Saturday we went to Durham to see India and we didn’t go in her place.
Wednesday we went to Newbern NC to visit my mother in law. We didn’t go in her place. My wife talk to her moma and sister everyday.
During the pandemic we have to be very careful in our comings and goings.
I would rather be able to continue to talk to family than to gather and we possibly exchange the COVID among ourselves and somebody gets sick and/or die.
What the pandemic has done or should I say has done is made us look at life differently.
I leave you with this question, is it worth risking your life and your love ones life by gathering versus doing a short visit and talking to your love ones on the phone or connecting on social media.
I choose to do the short visits and communicate through phone call and social media.
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