Let Me Set The Record Straight About Curmilus Butch Dancy II And My Marriage

I have been married to one wife since June 1997 and she is from New Bern NC. She has not worked since we have been married.

I have never cheated on my wife, didn’t do it when I was dating her even though she was around 65 miles away. I used to go to New Bern regularly during the week and on the weekend up until we got married. I have never dated 2 women at the same time even when I was single.

My wife is a home girl and unless it is something that the children want to do even up until today, she don’t want to go out to eat and other. Every now and then before the pandemic we would go out the eat.

When the children played sports in Jr. High School she went to just about all of their games. They didn’t play in high school and although I videoed the Jr. High games when they played basketball and volleyball, I also videoed the high school basketball and football games. I could not my wife to go since they were not playing.

I have heard mess over the years from folk that don’t even know my wife and also some they does directly and/or indirectly. I have heard that my wife had left me since they didn’t see her.

I have heard they said they never seen her drive one of 3 Malibus (newest one) that I have, 2 mines  (1 white, 1 black) and 1 red my son when he was in high school. My daughter had a Honda in high school and my wife used to drive that along with the white Malibu until my daughter went to college. My I used to have 2 Cadillacs back in the day and then I had my dads for a total of 3.

When I bought the newest Malibu 2017 in 2016, my wife was in New Bern staying with my mother in law because she had been sick. My daughter was in college. My wife had the white Malibu in New Bern.

I have been taking care of my dad and by my daughter being in Durham at NCCU, I always drive the newest car to work in Rocky Mount to keep it filled with gas in case there was an emergency and I needed to leave work early and go to Durham or to Greenville when my son was going to school at Pitt Community College.

I also left work either right after end of shift and/or left early to go to meetings locally and across the state, to video basketball/football games and other.

Before the COVID my church brother and I used to go visit the sick in the hospital and in the rest home regularly. We also went out to eat regularly and talk about church and fellowship.

So for anyone who want to know anything about me, all you got to do is ask.

I have been through a lot over the years. My oldest daughter not by my wife was born in 1987 and from 1988 up til around 2000 I had to deal with her moma trying to keep me from seeing her and I had to drive 4 hours one way to get her for a 3 day weekend, holidays and kept her 2 weeks in the summer until I got tired of dealing with the drama and since I had another family, I had to stop the road trips because things were getting stupid with me picking her up and dropping her off.

In 1995 my mom had a stroke and her health kept declining. In 1997 she became terminally ill and this is when my wife and I got married and she came her to hel p

In 1999 the flood of the century came and my wife and 2 children lost everything in the flooded. I am thankful my dad had gotten remarried at the time because if he had been still living with us, he would have died in the house during the flood more than likely.

I had to spend nights with my dad during 2 hip replacements taking leave from job. I would go home in the mornings for a couple of hours and then go back off and on during the day and then spend the night.

The last time I stayed with him he had been in a car accident and had to have a knee replacement so I to stay with him again.

Since he has been back in the house since the 1999 flood he has been flooded 2 times and had to come and stay with my family.

We have never had friends that hang out at our house nor have we hung out to other folk house.

So for all of you that are concerned that I control my wife because you don’t ever see her, well the only time you will see her is when she go places like Walmart, Roses, Dollar Tree and the grocery stores.

Hope this help those of you who say I ain’t never home.

I take care of my family that is what I do.