Be true to yourself first!
Know that we all make choices and once you get to a certain age you better think more about the choices you make because they will can and will come back to haunt you even if it don’t become Public because you know what you did. If you got a conscious it will bother you.
Don’t get it twisted we all have more than likely made some bad choices in our lifetime. But once you learn better we should do better.
Just my ignant opinion!