I hear people all the time saying they do not want to get a Facebook account. Several folks say that other folks tell them they don’t want to get on because it will mess up their marriage, boyfriend girlfriend status and/or other.
Well the conversation just tickles the hell out of me because Facebook is a social network site and if you have something to hide you may not want to get an account. I have no problem with Facebook, newspaper, tv station and/or whereby someone can actually put a picture or talk about me because I don’t have anything to hide. If somebody want to post a picture of you, talk about you you do not have to have a Facebook account because they can talk about you their account.
One guy told me that someone had called him and told him he was on Facebook and he said he didn’t have an account. Someone had posted a picture of him at a public event but he was not doing anything out of the norm. You see you do not have to have a Facebook account to actually be on because people can take pictures of you and talk about you on their account.
Facebook is what you make it. I use Facebook to educate and to be educated. Just like anything I see some mess on Facebook that I don’t care about especially the hardcore cursing such as the F-word, the use of the N-word and more. I especially hate it when women use these words.
Oh well Facebook is just like anything, there can be some good and some bad. I try to use it for the good.
Note: After posting this and after someone seen it on my Facebook account this person sent me a message to my inbox. The following is what he had to say.
“He said his wife had asked for a divorce after she met a Doctor on Facebook. Just keep praying 4 me because these things hurt a lot of family on my job alone last year many drivers lost their wives to facebook and chat lines. We have a prayer line on our job for drivers that goes through this stuff and some of our drivers be cheating on their wives because they got labtops in the cab and they are on chat with these women. You know it is bad when a couple can cheat right in the home while online instead of being on the phone and their mates are sitting right beside them.”
All I could say was this is sad. C. Dancy II – DCN Publisher